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Ricky Joiner
My wife had her bf staying over for the weekend. We are only a few weeks into the lifestyle but her bf is experienced in cuckolding. We are still in the stages of setting boundaries etc and this weekend her bf suggested that my wife and I have a formal contract between us which allows her to have sexual relationships with other males. The last couple he lived with had such a contract and were happy with it.
His main reason for this, he says, is to protect my wife from divorce through infidelity on her part and any such financial obligations because of it. We have seen a copy of this contract, duly signed and witnessed, and, in the main, it looks okay. But there is one clause in it concerning the event of the wife becoming pregnant by someone else and her husband’s role in bringing the child up as his own.
Anyway, this aside, we would like to know, if such contracts are legal and binding and does anyone else here have such a contract, and if not, would they sign one?
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Bellaazz
For us, we have no contract and I wouldn’t sign one. To us, it isn’t necessary. What does your wife think about all that, especially the pregnancy thing ? Seems awfully formal for something we consider a fun thing
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allistan
the contract is a good way to set boundries. I see it as first of all a way to give the wife confidence that the husband is really on board and happy to encourage her in the lifestyle. I have no idea if it would be legally binding..that would probably depend on local laws, but I will say that a clever attorney can unbind most any agreement…that should not be the question though, your word should be enough. Therefore, I would not have a problem signing it. You didn’t really go into the pregnancy clause, but it seemed to be a sticking point with you. Have you discussed it with her? Birth control should be a major discussion and possibly pregnancy..even the best birth control is not %100 effective..just be honest and open with each other, and if the bull is pressing rather than suggesting, i would have concerns as to if he had the best interests of you both in mind…
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Londonstartercouple
It sounds to me as if the bull is more conerned about his own position: (a) he doesn’t want you to be able to allege your wife’s committed adultery, with possible claims against him as the co-respondent, and (b) he wants to try to prevent you and your wife from claiming child support from him in the event of a pregnancy.
From your point of view, I don’t think you would want anything to be legally binding. If this document isn’t legally binding, then you have no problem. But you’d want to think hard about it, in case it actually is legally binding. Personally I would discuss the issues fully with him and your wife, but decline to sign anything.
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