Just wanted to introduce myself and check things out.
I am a 35yo blk male. Very fit and clean. Discrete and VERY Hung. I live in central indiana. Just out of what was an amazing and very satisfying DOM/ cuck cpl situation. Open to chatting. Just take into account that I am experienced. Not seeking to start all over.
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It ended because of a woman I was dating that found out about this part of my life. To make it short. Caused drama that neither my cuck cpl or the woman deserved. I definitely misjudged the complexity and unique dynamic of an ongoing cuckold situation. As a bull that is ” single” you can’t always have your cake and eat it too ; ).
Never the less the cpl and I are still able to exchange emails. I can’t sincerely say that I am ready ( or ever will be) able to be exclusive to with just the sub wife I own. Safety is an obvious concern for any cpl and most exp and mature bulls in this lifestyle. I found I was more at ease with the idea of breeding her( bare) and sending her home. I have never been the type of Bull to put anyone at risk. So, my sub was the only one I would fuck and seed bare. That was also my way of showing a deeper ( commitment) to her and his safety. Our relationship.
But the bigger issue was the long term expectations, challenges. And to be brutally honest, feeling. It can be fun to fantasize and chat about various scenarios. But in the real world, it can be very difficult for all. Esp the bull who is NOT the husband but is asked to be a second, committed and monogamous lover. I am not saying that any lines were crossed. Lets just say I ” cared” more than I was use to. Hubby had no problem with this and even welcomed and encouraged it towards me. But WE had to also be more realistic than our kinky male minds were sometimes. Lol. .
And my sub wife also started to expect a more monogamous commitment in bed. She was not the one to tell me this nor was it what I expected in the beginning. I was use to meeting cpls once, a few times or a semi-casual or on and off thing. Nothing to personal expected or displayed.
So.. I am in limbo. Love being a bull and I know I am fucking good at it ; ) lmao.
Imao, thanks for your honest reply. My pretty wife and I are in upstate ny. How about you? We have not done this in real life yet, but we talk and play with the idea. Mat
I am in same situation but in the Olando, Fl area, I am seeking the right black man for my wife,s he is unaware but if I can get the right guy I know she is crious about interracial sex. Let me know how our your situation is going.
I would love to have my wife and I experience a BULL. I am not sure how to get her interested in this lifestyle. We had discussed swinging in the past and she was receptive to that but not sure about how to get her into this. Do you have any ideas? We live in central Illinois.
My wife was fucked by her BBC Bull many times over the five years that He saw her. He would see us at least once a month or so over that time. But the same thing came up in our relationship with Him. He started to miss date night with my wife and she figured it was another woman He seeing, or maybe more. After all, He was quite good in bed with her and I know it was hard on her to call it off, she really got used to being fucked hard by Him. He was well hung and could last a long time.