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    • #31648
      Anonymous

        Hi all

        After 17 years of marriage I finally pursueded my wife to have sex with other men, which she really enjoyed.
        It was wonderful times, and over the next year or so, five different men fucked her, two fucked her bareback.
        We did everything, I took her to some and waited as they fucked her in their beds, two spent the night with her in our marital bed, fucking her many times through the night, and totally filling her with spunk.
        We also had hot 3somes where she took us bareback and swallowed many loads.
        I had many firsts, first time watching her being fucked, first time I watched her swallow cum, and first time fucking her used cum filled cunt.
        I had what I wanted, a perfect wife, a beautiful wife that always turned heads, a perfect mother to our children.
        But I also had a slut, an easy fuck and a cum bucket for other men.
        I won’t try and hide who I am and what I want, I’d prefer to be disliked for telling the truth rather than lying to be more accepted…
        I’m addicted to this lifestyle, I want a slut wife that many men fuck, I want my wife to be such an easy fuck and I want so so many men to cum inside her.
        I know in my heart that if a 1000 men fucked and cum filled my wife, I’d want more men to fuck her.
        I would like her to have lovers, I’d like her to be a white slut for black men, I’d like her gangbang, I’d like men to have her arse, hell, I’d even find it a turn on to have men pay to use her.. Yup, I’m filthy.
        But its all gone downhill, it’s been a few years since we had fun, my wife is 47 now, going through the change, does not like her own body, and to top it off she hates that she doesn’t get as wet as she once did, and that is really putting her off trying again.
        Add to this, her sex drive has taken a nose dive.
        We still constantly talk about it all, I’m as honest with her as I am on here with you lot.
        We resently got close again to playing, just before Xmas she got talking to another guy, and was close to agreeing to visit him with the strong likely hood of going to his bed for him to fuck her bareback.
        But she pulled out due to the above reasons, and no matter what I say I can’t get through to her.. I’m getting nowhere.
        When asked about whether she still wants her freedom to fuck other men, she always says she does, but she never gets any closer to going with other men anymore.
        I’m at my witts end, I’ve nothing left to try, yet my desire to have men fuck her and put their seed deep inside her is just getting stronger, it’s so bad that I do fantasies about tying her down just to get her fucked!.
        I really need help and advise, all suggestions are very much welcomed.

      • #31654
        Concupiscent2

          I’ve been boyfriend/bull to several women, single and hotwives, who go through menopause at various ages/times and suffer the same set of problems, that are basically all reflected in a poor self body image leading to that persistent cycle, lack of confidence, etc. I would suggest several courses of support for her…
          1) Ongoing, consistent verbal support for a positive body image…’gosh you’re beautiful’…’you have always made me so aroused’…’I can’t wait to touch you later’…you get the point. Random acts of kindness…
          2) Ongoing consistent physical support for a positive body image…gentle, surprise body contact…rubbing her shoulders after work…hugging her from behind when she washes dishes (thankful/gratitude +) or brushes her teeth (playful sensual +)
          3) Sensual gift of time, attention and display of your desire…take her to buy lingerie…and go sample some lube, together…
          4) take a step back to where she found the most comfort and security in her early acceptance of the concept…heavy role playing in bed, dildo substitute for other man/lover…and use the lube (her on you, you on her, role play it’s her lovers first load…
          Bottom line…mother nature’s cruel end to a woman’s principle purpose for being is ending, and she will need plenty of time to adjust. Some women it will pass quickly (12-18 mo), others can take several years of up/down hormonal/menstrual cycles and weight gain/loss.
          You have a woman who has been to the mountain top, and she’ll want to go there again. But she needs only gentle encouragement back to a new state of normal. You also will find a great benefit to forgoing her lifestyle fun for a short time….
          When she does return to form, she will want to make up for lost time and opportunities. All the ladies whom I dated and were impacted to some degree during this segment of their life, ALWAYS were more ravenous, explosive and demanding of sexual attention, frequency and duration of sex than before they started down hill.
          It will get better. Bite the bullet for the entire ride, and don’t push. She’ll get there.

        • #31720
          Watcher68

            Menopause did the same to my wife, and wives of friends. Hormone replacement therapy or testosterone therapy has made a lot of them hot wives again. Mine hasn’t been interested. I think loss of lubrication is just one of those things you have to accept as you age.

          • #32492
            Arno12

              Wir sind ein altes Ehepaar, hatten bisher immer guten Sex. Ich bin gut gebaut.
              Jetzt, nach meiner Operation habe ich keine Erektion.
              Ich möchte nicht, dass meine Frau auf den gewohnten Sex verzichten muß. Sie sagt auch dass ihr hin und wieder ein kräftiger Schwanz fehlt. Deshalb habe ich ihr einen Hausfreund/Bulle angeboten. Sie will aber (noch?) keinen Fremden ranlassen. Was kann ich tun?

            • #32493
              motley

                Arno12: You have planted the seed of an idea. It will blossom in time when the right man comes along.

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