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    • #33112
      Anonymous

        Hello everyone.

        We’re an Asian couple that has been in this lifestyle since 6 years and would like some urgent advice.

        In December my husband introduced me to Jake, a wonderful white man who was to be my boyfriend/bull for a while. Fortunately for me, Jake and I got along very well. Unfortunately, we met only several times due to his schedule

        On Friday morning Jake called us up to ask if we’d be open to him being in quarantine with us and we were extremely excited about it since we wanted to try this out since a while.

        Unfortunately, our 19 year old son lives with us and will be for a while so my husband and I are thinking of introducing them to each other, but we’re not sure how exactly to go about this.

        We’d love any advice on how we can make this happen as smoothly as possible

      • #33279
        onthesidekines

          There is no one answer here.

          Every son is different so feel him out. Better safe than sorry.

          If he is ok with it give him a safe room or area. Nothing is worst than hearing you parents fuck than hearIng your mother being fucked while sitting With your father.

          Take little steps.

        • #33810
          Don

            Our son found out and he was about the same age (19). He (our son) came home late, when he was supposed to be camping out with his friends. When my son pulled into the driveway, my wife’s bf’s truck was there.

            My wife heard our son pulling into the drive, so she got out of bed. She threw on her robe and confronted our son as he came into the house. He asked his mom who was here. My wife told him “a friend and your dad knows.” At that point, our son turned around and went to his room. It made my wife’s bf uncomfortable, so he left.

            I am an airline pilot and I was gone when this happened. About a week later, I got a text from my son asking if we were swingers or something. I replied “or something.” He replied “fine, conversation over.”

            As for me, the cuckold husband, I was aware of this lifestyle from my teen years. Me and two of my buds, growing up had swinger (or something) parents.

            When I learned of this lifestyle as well as the LGBTQ community, it confused me because all I was taught, up until that point, was the traditional, monogamous, heterosexual lifestyle. Nevertheless, I slowly started accepting that not everyone desires that traditional type of lifestyle.

            Good luck with your son. Personally, I don’t think our lifestyle is wrong, anymore than any other alternate lifestyle.

            It’s obvious to my wife and I that our son would rather not know this about his mom and dad. He doesn’t like to talk about it and he ignores it, but interestingly, his gf is bi-sexual, lol.

            He is now 22 and still lives with us. Since the initial discovery, our son has met a few of my wife’s bf’s. Our son has never caught my wife “in the act” with any of her bf’s. However, we do not hide our lifestyle from him. Our opinion is if it bother’s him enough, he can move out.

            We, also, have an older daughter. She lives with her fiancee, but they both know about our lifestyle as well. We don’t talk, much, about it with them either, but they seem amused by it, so they are much more accepting of it.

          • #34297
            Londonstartercouple

              How did this work out. Did Jake come and stay? If he did then of course you made the introduction to your son. But did your son also learn that he is your boyfriend? Or did that just become obvious during Jake’s stay – which might be the easier way to deal with this.
              I knew a couple with two teenage daughters. Their mother just took them to one side one day and said that she now had a boyfriend and he would be staying overnight and Dad was fully in agreement. The girls enjoyed having him around when he came. They even saw him in the marital bed without embarrassment.

            • #37295
              AlphaKala

                I has been my experience that many kids to not want to know or even think about their parents having sex.

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