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      Jac

        I’m curious about cuckolding. To clarify I’m currently single, so when I mention a partner, it’s a hypothetical partner.

        Is it better to transition from a monogamous relationship into a cuckolding dynamic? Or to initiate the relationship within a cuckolding dynamic to begin with, or at least very early on?

        I think I’d have difficulty with smoothly transitioning from a mutually monogamous relationship dynamic into a cuckolding relationship. So if I were to have a cuckolding relationship, I’d prefer it to start out that way; or at least turn into one early on.

        With this in mind, I imagine this would be easier if I pursued a potential relationship with a woman that’s already somewhat promiscuous.

        What are your experiences & preferences in this regard?

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        Luvr

          @j-n-l It is always better to transition to this from a well-established relationship in the traditional sense. The reason for this is about stability and trust, which takes time to establish. There are more and more couples who are open with each other about an interest in this while they are dating and some who even begin this while dating, but they are typically couples who have been dating as a couple for multiple years.

          You can do yourself a favor by ensuring your potential partner in this isn’t, for example, devoutly religious. while there are those wives who eventually get past that obstacle, most do not.

          The other point to remember is that she has to value you as a man and as her partner in the relationship. If all you have together, really, is a sexual relationship – and you give that role up, in large part, to another male, you are left without a role that she values.

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