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Shanny4Bull
October 22, 2014 at 5:00 pmPost count: 1We really like many things about this website and the whole idea of it. However, once we got to the Forums, it is very disappointing to see so many great topics, questions, etc. on the threads and yet so few comments on most of them. Hundreds and even thousands of “views” but so few comments. It makes for a frustrating experience when looking for ideas, perspectives, etc.
So, we are looking for a bull in the Metro Detroit area. We are not into pain, humiliation, water sports and must be drug and disease free with a large penis and be attractive.
Though we typically hook her up with people she is familiar with, co-workers, managers, some friends, etc. the thing that happens though, is once they find out that the husband is ok with it, the get squirrely and that ends the relationship. Or, they get to clingy and clutchy. It can take soooooo long to get into bed and start something regular and then have to start from scratch again. Frustrating over the years.
We were hoping to find someone with patience and understanding to us working this route. It seems strange to just meet someone you don’t know, for us anyway, and begin such a personal relationship. The thing about an experienced bull is, they know the rules in advance and hopefully abide by them. Though some of the eroticism is lost.
Would love to also hear about how this lifestyle has enhanced your relationships and both the female and male perspectives to how you enjoy this.
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Ephraim
October 23, 2014 at 8:48 pmPost count: 4My wife and I are in the same region that you are. Sex with people we already know would be very indiscreet for us, so we have found men through web sites like SLS and ILIR and Craigslist.
We are also pretty much stuck with using hotel rooms, because we have a teenage kid at home.
We have found one local guy (you can visualize him as a retired basketball player) and have had two sessions with him; a third is planned this coming weekend. He’s very well hung, and has worked with a couple before, but he’s not really a dominant bull type at all.
Meanwhile, my wife has also has been communicating for some time with an experienced bull who lives six hours away. She has learned a whole lot from him — he has really drawn her into the lifestyle, and brought out her submissive side. We will be meeting him for the first time in a couple weeks.
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StokieUKCpl
October 24, 2014 at 1:36 amPost count: 32Hello Ephraim,
Like us you have been scouring the internet for suitable guys. I don’t need to tell you that guys will pretty much say anything..ANYTHING..to get into a womans panties…myself included. Most guys when pretending to be bulls or have an understanding of cuckolding are useless and fall at the first hurdle. “Hi I’m into cuckholding” or “let me cockhold you” its pathetic really lol.
If I was to pretend to be a bull..it would be easy to convince a couple that I was indeed so. From a cuck point of view..I would know exactly what to say to them to get them to meet me. Would I be up to the task of performing like a bull?? Hmmmm maybe..I don’t have any problems performing and would likely make a pretty good job of it. But is this fair? Maybe not…would I care? Personally yes I would..but for some guys if it leads to the woman opening her self up to me..then I win….
6 hours is a hell of a journey whats that 400 miles? We have fallen for it several times..infact too many. Please be careful.
Most of our fantasies need a local bull…to call when Im at work..to be there when I return..to drop by unannounced…etc. Good luck in your search..we know how hard it is my friend.
Rob , Anna
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theterriers
ParticipantDecember 30, 2014 at 7:59 pmPost count: 17we are new hear and also live in your region. we understand the frustrations and challenges in finding a suitable Bull. we desire to take the submissive couple role with a Dominant Bull in a long term relationship. we have tried a few personals sites, and found it difficult to find what we were looking for local to us. There were a few very promising older Doms that said they had experience with couples, and they did seem genuine and real, but lived several states away. Most men were looking for a one-nighter, vanilla swinger type of a hook-up, and did not know what cuckolding even was, nor did they seem to desire something long term.
Cuckolding does seem to be getting more popular and established. we hope with the increase of information on cuckolding becoming available, the cuckold scene will grow. This may help bring more qualified males into the role of Bulls and provide better direction for cuckold couples to connect with these Bulls. we love to chat with other cuckold couples, and we sincerely hope the cuckold community grows.
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