Wife Has Attachment Issues, Need Advice.

In the same boat as you right now. Wife is afraid that starting something again may lead to attachment issues. So she is unsure about wanting to find a long term.

Hey guys,

Hope things are still going well in your relationships. Attachment to the other partner will be present at times. If you guys were looking for another person that will be incorporated in your marriage, then certain “attachments” are going to be developed. Specially for women, they tend to connect sexual acts with emotions and feelings.

What I recommend is that you have a conversations with them about this. The attachment they are developing is expected and normal part of this lifestyle. The more “attachment” is created the more trust, the better communication, and the better sex gets.

Private message me if you guys will like better advice and more guidance. We can go over things in better details once I get background on the situation. 

– J

It comes down to what really matters to you – sex or the marriage. Because that’s how often women begin to feel. Just have a good, honest talk about everything.  If the sex aspect of a Cuckold Marriage has ended, then it has.  Ride was fun while it lasted, but in reality, it can only go on for so long.  Our bodies get older with us…..sometimes it’s just biology happening.  Women look long term in their relationships, men, we are more of the ‘right now’.  If my wife was telling me that she’s having second thoughts, then just support whatever decision she has…..in the end, ‘happy wife, happy life.’  

My wife is in love with her bull, and he is in love with her. I think it enhances the life, he says her pussy belongs to him and she agrees and so do I 

That is so brave Daytona

they have to love their Bulls most of the time

it does help if you know she still loves you too

Re attachment issues: She will become “attached” to her bull as he is the go to guy for sex but she should still consider you her partner. From reading this site’s forums solutions are to either drop this bull and find another or to have 2 or 3 bulls so that those feelings are spread around and her main attachment is still you.

I have the same problem my wife had 2 boyfriends and 1 day she just no more at first I thought maybe  a break new bfs. a month went by and she is set on being done 

@daytonacpl said:
My wife is in love with her bull, and he is in love with her. I think it enhances the life, he says her pussy belongs to him and she agrees and so do I 

i think this is quite common and to be expected this is me writing my wife is in love with bulls not one but several  she was slipping out for sex with bulls for quite a while  he does say pussy belongs to him but he is quite wrong as several bulls involved  it does enhance her life  and it should  i keep her pussy clean  

When my wife started cuckolding me the first time around she got emotiionally attached to one of her lovers and ended up breaking off the relationship and stopped cuckolding me. She told me about the attachment and how he was trying to get her to leave me for him. She loved me enough that it wasn’t going to happen but the fact that she even got attached scared her and that’s why she stopped the cuckolding altogether. Fastforward to many years later. Our marriage had evolved into a pretty much female led relationship and she had gotten in touch with her old boyfriend on social media. I had met him in the past and she had told me how he was hung like a horse. I suggested that he come for a visit and she could renew acquantances so to speak! Long store short, this got her started back to cuckolding me again. She is in her 50’s now and she has matured a lot since the first time around. We have talked about the differences between the first time around and now and she says that now she views her lovers as just someone to have a good time with, much like a friend that she has a drink with from time to time. She has two regulars that different styles of fucking her and she says it’s the variety that she enjoys and looks at them as friends and nothing more.

I suspect your wife is experiencing the same emotional turmoil my wife did when it happened to her. The best advice I can give is to let her know that you feel secure in your relationship and have no problem with continuing but don’t push her into anything that she’s not willing to do as it will cause more harm than good. Give her time to sort through her emotions and deal with what happened and hopefully she will decide to pick up where you left off.

@daytonacpl said:
My wife is in love with her bull, and he is in love with her. I think it enhances the life, he says her pussy belongs to him and she agrees and so do I 

both my cuckold husband and i agree with you oh yes bull agrees also

@daytonacpl said:
My wife is in love with her bull, and he is in love with her. I think it enhances the life, he says her pussy belongs to him and she agrees and so do I 

At some point her pussy becomes his whether it is in the “I am in love part” or not in love but enjoying his cock.

It is a natural progression of acceptance for all.

@dutch said:

Anyone have this problem, or offer any advice on how to approach this problem so we can work through it?

Thanks.

In my opinion is an emotional problem, temporary i hope. For woman, passion for one man (bull, boyfriend) and love for husband is easy, but when she begin love for two men, not all women can. Be patient and not force your wife, sex are vicious like a drugs. 😉

You can’t avoid that a woman falls in love with her bull, if he offers her all emotional, sensual, sexual, stylish needs that she wants to fulfill her desire of love. The cuckold is only accepted so long as he obtains useful services or as he is in charge like a toy for them. Once upon a time his duty is finished and he can go. Of course, she says, I love you. But love can’t be splitted and love can’t be ordered or stoned. Every feeling is in motion, and sex is the preliminary part of love. Therefore it is natural to move from the cuckold to the bull.

It’s another thing if you like a threehold partnership or if you have described clear roles to play, but even this play isn’t everlasting. So, without illusion, it’s a period of intense sexual and erotic experience, but it will blow up sooner or later. Enjoy what you celebrate, but don’t worry if the game is over.