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      ssycuck4hw01

        My wife and I discussed and agreed for our relationship to be a hotwife/cuckold relationship early on. Our first experience was more of a threesome and kind of awkward for her. She was not completely comfortable because the bull was a stranger. She then began cuckolding me by going to a former coworkers house without me. She was really excited about that part, but then her former coworker got married and stopped the relationship. We have had several experiences since then focusing on BBC bulls, which she prefers. She now wants nothing to do with the lifestyle and has accused me of giving her body away to anyone. In all of these cases, I have found the bull for her, but she has been the one who approves or disapproves. I’m kind of at a loss right now because I feel like I need to be in this type of relationship. I would appreciate any advice.

      • #21207
        Mrsmfnsmith

          She wouldn’t have those feelings of hurt oror anger OR use terms such as ‘giving her body to anyone’.. i’m confident that when she was without you, that she was made to feel like woman that was WANTED… but now, she feels like a woman that is NOT wanted. Women, regardless of who they fuck, still have to KNOW beyond any doubt whatsoever that it is HER that you desire more than the desire to give what she wants you claim, and show her it’s your claimed cunt in front of others and especially in private, away like it’s nothing. In other words, don’t make every bedroom hottt passionate filthy orgasmic moment be about her and someone else.. she didn’t choose everyone else for life. She chose you. So your heading that your wife no longer wants lifestyle is misleading to the man in the mirror.. it makes it sound as tho there’s something wrong with her when the reality is that the ‘lifestyle’ she has vowed to is one with you and whatever makes you hottt (her sucking a stranger off or having 2 monster cocks beat her pussy out of its frame or blow loads of cum on her ass) makes her want you to want her more… it doesn’t sound like you do. But if you do want this woman, you need to do whatever it takes, sincerely, to ensure she knows she is IT for you and she’s not just wasted precious years of precious life..

          • #22315
            chastity

              Very enlightening words. I am just beginning to understand how to be a proper submissive to my wife and struggle to keep my thoughts clear about having the proper attitude.

          • #22800
            M Dawe

              We have been married for 40 years and for more than 30 years my wife enjoyed the lifestyle. She had her last boyfriend with whom she enjoyed regular sex up until 3 years ago. When this came to an end she explained to me that she was no longer looking for other men and would just be my wife and my lover from now on.
              At first I was surprised, remembering how she enjoyed her sexy times and how she always seemed to glow after being thoroughly fucked by her bulls, but then I just said to myself that I had to accept her decision as I loved her and nothing was further from my intentions to try to make her do something she no longer wanted.
              I live and cherish my happy memories or a true cuckold and of a wife whose pussy has been enjoyed by many other men and many other dicks. All her intercourses were always bareback and with true creampies and the possibility of getting pregnant. We have one son who we call our “true love child” and the result of her relationship with her favourite bull with whom my wife had a realtionship for more than 10 years.
              It was great when it all was going on and it is fine now as all my fantasies were fulfilled. I happily accept the past and the present. That’s it.

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