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    • #28341
      curiousmwm

        I have been speaking with my wife for a long time about bringing another man into the bedroom. Hearing her previous trysts while she tells me stories makes me SO hard. Hearing about being with black guys. She is curious and would love to have two guys at the same time but is scared and timid. I am looking for some advice on how to answer her questions.
        1. How do we find that guy? Vacation? ads?
        2. Is this so you can sleep with women?
        3. Where would we do this if it happened?
        4. Can I change my mind at anytime?
        5. Why do you want to do this?
        6. Am i not enough for you?
        7.What do you want out of this?

        These are some questions, can I ask for some feedback/help?

      • #28350
        Anonymous

          Many of it depends on the type of who you would meet, is it anyone ? or someone who could have a sense of humor/big dick, or more of emotional/intellectual connection , that answered , can define what do you want to happen, and who do you want it , for instance : one could answer in this way for your questions: 1- anywhere, with ads you better be more specific so you dont get something you didn’t expect or a level you dont like to reach. this website has some experienced members.
          2- sometimes not only sleeping, but rather a bull owning her and enjoy the forbidden fruit, and also liking the idea of taking the wife off her hubby, and possibly make the hubby serve and support this idea.
          3- possible in a hotel room, or your place after a first meeting in a cafe or a bar if chemistry is right.
          4- you can change the mind anytime, but you need to make sure you build it slowly, and best to try the experience so long it is for the sake of joy and happiness
          5- my intentions are focused on joy, there are things that you for instance don’t like or feel shy to do with your husband, but you could accept the bull to do it to you, like obedience, or putting a leash on, or other stuff which you may think it is better to give this entitlement to a bull not a husband.
          6- she can know this after she tries it 😉
          7- joy for the wife 😉

          • #28526
            curiousmwm

              Thank you so much for the reply. We talk a lot about it and we may try our first time on vacation. She really wants to go to Jamaica (I am sure you can figure out why)
              But for an ongoing relationship, I totally agree using the sites and meeting in public for chemistry/trust/interest first.

          • #28687
            MatureMUK

              good answer jack 🙂

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