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So, we found a male to be our NSA, FWB for a MFM relationship. Hubs and I are feeling that he is to overly aggressive with me. This is what I came up with to tell him how we are feeling but hubs says that it sends the wrong message.
“I don’t know if this is bugging T or not but, it is bugging me. So far this relationship has been very exciting, exciting for all of us from what I can tell. But, I think for this to work we all need equal time. When the two of us get going, I’m finding it hard to stop things to get T to join in and feeling like if it’s hard for me to then it may be hard for him as well. The last thing that I ever want T to feel is to feel left out. Sex with T been great for the past 20 something years and has kept me very satisfied all this time. Sex with you is very good too but for me and this thing with the three of us is the best when it is the three of us.
I’ve started reading the Polyamory book and I think that you and T should read it too after I finish it. So far a lot of it doesn’t really fit us but it’s a start and I’ll look for some links that may fit better. Regular relationships are hard enough, this one is just a little more complicated but I think that we can make it work.Basically, I just want you two to share me equally and we ALL enjoy each other.Thoughts? Thanks M from TandM -
Tony
Just my comment … my wife and I have been in the swinging lifestyle for 6 years or so as a couple. We were both also swingers as singles before we met … while swinging. Her single experiences were nearly all 1 on 1 with a man … quite a few different ones, in fact. My single experiences were a pretty equal mix of MF and MFM with a couple. I never ran into a cuck couple in that time. As a couple, most of our experiences have been couple swaps, with single guys brought in ocassionally to join us for an MFM. I only tell you that to let you know that I have some knowledge/experience to share on this topic.
What you are describing as your desired 3 way relationship is much more of a ‘standard’ 3 way, and not so much a cuck/hw relationship. Understand that I’m not cricizing that at all. 3-ways are GREAT, especially for the sexy wife who is getting the double teaming. The question I have is, what does your husband WANT? Only he can answer that, and only you can ask him. Maybe he is highly satisfied with the 3-way. There’s no denying they are fun. But since you have to coax him to join in, maybe he WANTS to be a cuck who watches and gets a bigger thrill from seeing you pleasured by another while he excluded. Maybe a serious talk with T is in order to find out.
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