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Outercourse is the practice of engaging in physical, sexual intimacy, with genital contact, without penetration.
Outercourse provides a meaningful method of intimacy and sexual release for the cuckold husband who is denied the privilege of entering his wife. As demonstrated above, a cowgirl position outercourse enables the woman to masturbate herself and her cuckold simultaneously. With a bit of practice, but should be able to orgasm through this intimacy.
Denial is or should be a factor in any healthy cuckold marriage. To understand this article in its proper context, it is important to read “Cuckold Denial“. One of the ways to make the dynamic of denial more intense while also increasing the physical intimacy shared by husband and wife is by engaging in outercourse. 
The most common method is for the wife to mount the husband on his back and for her to have control of movement – and his penis. She will, in effect, masturbate herself against the penis of her husband which is trapped between them. For smaller husbands (penis), she may have to hold it against herself to be able to keep up a rhythm while outercourse continues.
Above we see an alternative to this which can be utilized for a cuckold with a pantyhose fetish, a foot fetish, or by the hotwife or Dom who decides that, for whatever reason, the cuckold must attain orgasm through a less intimate, more humbling method. Outercourse is just one of many different ways I coach cuckold couples to experience and share intimacy without violating the intimate physical bonds that have formed between the wife and her boyfriend.
Outercourse can be part of foreplay, part of edging play or an erotic way to provide the cuckold release after she has returned from a date.
The pleasure of erection is more subtle than the pleasure of a woman’s sex yielding to penetration, but it’s still very enjoyable and as a cuckold, an erection can last much longer than intercourse would. This means much longer duration of experiencing erotic pleasure than as a traditional husband – and that’s simply being erect without a wife’s direct stimulation via edging.
A traditional husband has expectations that his penis, his erection – is the center of the marriage and that simply by virtue of it being erect, he’s entitled to sex. In order for a husband to evolve in his supportive cuckold role, the role of his penis must also evolve.
Last, but not least, outercourse can be combined with ruined (abandoned) orgasm ensuring a cuckold maintains a proper attitude and focus on his wife rather than his orgasm.
The cuckold’s spurt is quite copious – an indication of denial AND of the intense orgasm denial and outercourse can offer a cuckold. Wives can and should see this as a benefit for themselves and not just for their cuckold.
Perhaps it will now be back to being erect for her, offering his tongue, and waiting for her next date to again have this intimacy with his wife.
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Allowing the cuckold to thrust while his penis is squeezed between the wife’s breasts (aka mammary coitus) can also provide a level of intimacy in lieu of intercourse.
Mammary coitus is especially effective when her breasts are covered in my love bites and his lube is what she failed to swallow fast enough!
My first girlfriend used to do this as well as rub herselt on my upper thigh to get off. At the time I thought that was just foreplay, and that is what women needed to be able to cum. I guess since it was instead of screwing and not prior to I should have got it, as it was maybe a 10 to 1 ratio. My wife’s favorite with me is with her on top, and to be honest, my little dick is doing nothing for either of us, there is no up and down and she is just grinding her clit against me, and so is almost outercourse itself. I think this is a good way to keep intimacy alive between us, and in this way she might even feel my dick.
I agree with you Beth, but for smaller guys, it is really difficult to make it work, you can’t really do any stroking with no length, so it just becomes work for the woman. I had tried it a couple of times with my wife, as her old boyfrieind (who had a real cock) used to do that to her, but after a couple of tries, we gave up, it just didn’t work.
I absolutely love this idea. It seems to have naturally happened in our marriage because of my inability to control myself inside of my wife. Instead, she lets me hump her leg, which is a more humiliating method, but outercourse nonetheless.
i have done this with angela, with her on top and grinding against me. even a small hard penis can be effective if she is able to rub her clit against it.