Reply To: Swingers Shifting in Direction

I agree with you, Luvr. We had many a play date where one of us (wife or me) had a disappointing evening. Occasionally BOTH of us. Our best swinger couple friends were both psychologists. One evening as we 4 were resting up from a great time together, our fine gentleman friend began to talk about how incredibly difficult it is to find what we 4 had together… 4 people who were so wonderfully compatible both in and out of the bedroom. He was right. They quite deservedly retired and moved away. We have yet to find that again. We look forward to this new adventure.