Reply To: Alpha Cucks

hmm well I’m new to this site but I found some of the comments interesting. I just wanted to put in my two-cents.

First, I think we all can clearly see that we all have slightly different definition of what a cuck is or isn’t. I don’t know for certain if I am a cuck, but I know who *I* am and what *I* want and it doesn’t much matter to me if it matches to Webster’s, or anyone else’s, definition. For me, I’m absolutely interested in my girlfriend sexually teasing and humiliating me, but have no interest in the bull or other man being directly involved in that. For both of us, we seem to think of the “bull” as more of a sex toy than some kind of domineering force that my wife might leave me for. In any case, I don’t think there is any right way, just do what feels right for you and don’t assume everyone else fits in that box.

Second, (and the reason I decided to write) I see a lot of comments both here and elsewhere talking about cuckolding being “natural” and overcoming the things that keep us from that sexually liberated natural state, including (but not limited to) declaring the importance of penis size. I hope I’m not killing anyone’s buzz, maybe some of these comments are in fantasy/play time but I don’t just disagree, I STRONGLY disagree! 😉 The arguments being made fall right in line with a neoliberal narrative; we escape culture to become sexually liberated individuals. If it suddenly became the norm for women to fuck alpha males in front of their beta husbands (to use the site’s colloquialism)… I would lose ALL interest in it. The fact that my girlfriend teases me about these things is sexy precisely because they are “wrong”. If you take away the taboo elements of sexuality, you might start to become a bit bored. Have you picked up a magazine lately? They are telling us to have sex… not for love… not for lust… but to lower our blood pressures… but don’t get too attached or obsessed, cause that will lower productivity! My point is simply that sexuality is fascinating precisely because it exists at intersection of… EVERYTHING. Sex is NOT primal, it is primal, cultural, unconscious, and based on individual experience and so so much more. There is a reason sex can be so cathartic, a reason why we often chase the same troubled kinds of mates. I don’t KNOW all those reasons or have those answers, but I know it is much more complex than some basis for evolution or individual choice. For very long we have thought that sex is dirty and we wish to escape that, but do we not also have to admit that the very dirt we wish you to rid ourselves of is sexy as well? Be careful what you wish for! That my friends, is culture and religion, and I don’t want to be a computer. If I did, I’d hump my girlfriend for 5 minutes and call it a night.

Now to penis size, because its a popular topic and because it exemplifies my point. Women do not naturally want a giant penis! I’ve seen inside enough bedside tables to know that what women chose as sex toys are often quite reasonable and even small in size, if they are even at all phallic! Women don’t buy giant dildo’s, their perverted boyfriends get it for them (me for example). I’m not well endowed AT ALL and I’ve never had an issue getting a women to orgasm. Couple that with the knowledge that the majority of women, the majority of the time, DO NOT orgasm during intercourse… that’s just fact. So there is really very little PRIMAL reason to want a big cock. I will even add to that then when I’ve had any difficulty getting women to orgasm, it was not under-stimulation but OVER-stimulation that was the problem. Simply slowing it down and “resetting” often did the trick. I could see a big cock over stimulating, at least in your first few encounters with it…. but I agree that size does matter! But it matters CULTURALLY more than anything else. Pretending that culture doesn’t matter, only helps to take away something, an idea, that is fun to encounter and interact with.

Black men are not going to steal all the white women. And yet many people here have these kind of fantasies. The fantasy itself (which there is absolutely nothing wrong with) is rooted in colonialism. And now we have people that engage and interact with this idea for whatever reason (often to psychologically deal with REAL shit). We should celebrate that as we celebrate size (or smaller if you want – I’m all for diversity) but I think its important that we acknowledge that its not about being natural (or not solely) but engaging with our culture and in some cases overcoming it.

I think this was too long. Sorry if I went a bit off topic.