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Hi, trust you are well. It may be hard to accept but we are simply not built for that much sex. Luvr talks a lot about what is biologically natural and so on. Sexual excitment is the most tremendous feeling, you feel good relaxed loose when having sexual fun. But what is happening inside. Your brain is reacting to a natural external stimulant and you are feeding it almost in a feedback loop. The brain produces dopamine and takes up seratonin.The brain is experiencing the same feelings as would the brain of a drug addict where the same process is stimulated chemically.Through time and with use a balance is attempted by the brain chemistry whcih will attemp to return you to normal.Normal biological sexual relations happen a lot quicker and there is a lot more selection takes place before hand, good old natural selection. A man meets a woman he is highly attracted to and her him the chemistry is there and they make love very quickly compared to cuckolding Afterwards they relax in each others company which they enjoy and they learn to enjoy things other than sex together as both get little pleasure signals just by looking at each other.Women seem to know this instinctivly. The cuckold wants these feelings all the time and I suspect in many occassions the cuckold is with a woman he never loved in the first place but with high sexualisation of the relationship he can feel something similar to love.The cuckold then cannot find the proper biological relationship because he has ruined his chanced by putting something in between him and nature. He is trying to fool a system which is millions of years old. it never works.
