How do Doms see cuckolds?

An understanding Bull will know that it is both their needs that he is supposed to satisfy. If he is unable to look after her needs he needs to see her being looked after and over time to get more involved and to learn that sexual pleasure for him is something other than penetration. He will get pleasure from fluffing, seeing her penetrated, seeing her lover cum inside her, cleaning up both and also orally pleasuring her lover and swallowing for her pleasure.

Define “Real Dom”, “Real Bull”, “Real Cuck”.
All of the actions and views will vary depending on the people and what they agree to. The agreement is either by specifying the “rules” directly or by doing so indirectly through action and acceptance or objection.
If you don’t know what you want or don’t care, ask your wife. If you want something, tell her. If she refuses to consider what you want, you have a problem. If you want a Bull that respects you then demand respect. If you want to be humiliated by him then say so.
I personally don’t view the cuck as pathetic, I just accept that he will either help serve our desire or that he will stay out of the way as long as no harm is done.

I think you are right. Praise for the Bull to the Cuck is good and does make the Bull even bigger and harder. I recall a wife telling her cuck to take my cock in his mouth and feel how big and strong in was and to feel how it pulsed. My cock just got rock hard and throbbed in his mouth. Later I gave him the last couple of spurts direct and he lapped it up making Mmmmmmm sounds. His involvement always made me harder and cum stronger.

Someone who considers, let alone treats any submissive, husband or not, without due respect, has no place in this lifestyle. One can humble and ensure a submissive can express their role while also respecting them for the role. Without that side of the coin, the other cannot exist either.

Simply said: being an asshole is just being an asshole – it’s not being ‘dominant’.

All I can speak for is how me and my husband approach it. I am a Domme and he is submissive to me and me only, not to the bull., however he will serve the bull however I direct. We have ground rules so its always and enjoyable experience and no anxiety.
Now 99% of the men out there really have no idea how to work with this fetish, they just look at it as, excuse my french, “a free piece of ass” So I avoid these types totally. They also have to understand they do not control me or the scene..I do.
I also do not just jump into things quickly, I like to establish some chemistry with the bull so we all have a rapport with him to create a comfort level for all.
My husband serves how I direct, whether it be at my feet while I flirt and make out with the bull, or at the side of the bed, or outside the bedroom door bound, or in a corner hooded, bound, and in chastity or just c&B bound up with a leash on it that I tug as I enjoy myself. So many ways, these are just a few examples.
His job is to refresh drinks, bring snacks, provide a warm wash cloth during play to freshen both me and the bull, and he also is to wash the bulls cock & balls after play. I also have him lick me clean after play (I do not do bareback).
But the real fun starts after the bull leaves, and I then discipline my sub if his performance wasn’t up to snuff, and do extensive cbt on him that leaves him so sore he couldn’t even cum if I allowed him to. He is never allowed access to me 3 days before and 3 days after play….and I love the torment
But back to the question..the bull has to understand my husband will always be present

Even always being treated with respect, my impression is that Bulls feels superior than us cuckolds, it’s some type of “silent humiliation” as voyeurcuck has said. I think it’s natural and perfectly acceptable. They are fucking our wives, they are getting pleased, they are in a position a lot of men would like to be. I don’t know about Bulls who would like to be cuckolds.
Despite seeing us cuckold as inferior men, it doesn’t mean they can disrespect us. Also, respecting us doesn’t mean they all enjoy everything about having the cuckold there. I think a cuckold-Bull relation is like a boss-employee relation – it has to be respectful, some distance is natural and both should have their needs fulfilled.
Some men are just interested in fucking the wife, some men like to tease the cuckold. As long everything goes respectfuly and everbody is ok about what is going on, there’s no problem.

Nice Mistress C

I really think it’s possible I’ve had communication with only one legitimate Dom and he is probably the coolest and certainly among the best individuals I’ve encountered on one of these sites (this one, actually!). I hope he reads this. I can’t claim to know precisely how he sees me or men he’s cuckolded. But I know how he treats me and talks about those men. That speaks volumes. He’s supportive, encouraging, patient and understanding. Wise. I can tell this man cares about people and that he wants something with a couple. He’s the kind of person I would want for a bull.