Submission can be just as powerful when subtle.
There are several important points to make about what you’ll see in this video, but first, go ahead and watch it end to end.
Some may find this video as not representing the cuckold/hotwife lifestyle because both men seem to be enjoying her equally and she is attentive physically to both men. As a community we tend to view the husband’s role as a more passive, observational role, but this, like many other aspects of the lifestyle, is very variable and subjective for each couple.
Within a few seconds of the video starting, we witness her riding one male cowgirl while the other male, obviously very erect, kneels beside them. Note the physical contact there – that’s the loving, supportive hand of a cuckold who has stepped aside to allow her boyfriend to take first place inside his wife. His wife returns that gift by then sucking him while her boyfriend continues exercising her sex from behind. We again see the husband comforting, encouraging and kissing his wife while she’s joined with her boyfriend in a slow, spooned coupling.
While both males ultimately enjoy the same pleasures with her, it’s likely that her boyfriend spent far more time inside her than her husband did, which is both expected and natural. The subtle difference of allowing her boyfriend to go first, or perhaps it could be said, her choice of taking her boyfriend first, and only giving the husband intercourse when her boyfriend had his fill of her snug sex is still a very clear expression of submission by the husband. Even if the husband hadn’t been allowed entry inside her at all, he would have felt very included, very loved and very appreciated for his role.
Practicing their lifestyle this way, at least periodically, greatly reinforces the wife-centric nature of cuckolding and ensures each member of the triad not only enjoys their role but appreciates the roles of the others. Having enjoyed this style of interaction, the husband should feel much less anxious about time she spends alone with her boyfriend knowing this poweful style of expressing their lifestyle and roles will come around again.
This is right on the money
I agree. That is the perfect scene for me
I think this totally right, being a cuckold is not about be totally excluded, it’s being totally focused upon your wife’s pleasure and not your own.
Very nice post – and vid – and Jim – i agree i think its all about the wife being free to enjoy her boyfreind and for the husband to support however he can.
I feel that the cuck supporting his wife is wonderful. I would perfer to see the cuck in chastity. He might as well be in chastity since I doubt he will have sexual access to his wife. The plus side of being in chastity is that he will be much more desireous of pleasing his wife.
Ralph:
While I respect your opinion, but it appears in the video that the cuck/husband did have access to his wife and that is the point of the whole post. Sure, chastity could make a difference, but that is not necessarily true. Not all cucks are the same. I have no problem should my wife wish me to defer to her lover, but, I also need and want to feel a part of it beyond simply a voyeur or servant. I feel that is the best way to assure complete focus on my wife and her pleasure as the ultimate goal.
I agree with Lyle, this is the perfect way to make sure your wife is pleasured they way she prefers to be pleasured. After all that is what it is all about. The boyfriend in this vid has total control along with the wife. Just because the husband is allowed to fuck his wife does not mean he was not given permission from the boyfriend or his wife. There is no real indication that he was allowed to cum either. The control is by the wife and boyfriend. It is all about her, not the boy friend or the cuck, it is for her pleasure.