We live in a small town of 5,000 people and the towns within an hour driving distances total 15,000 people. There is a medium size town 90 minutes away and a city 3 and 4 hours away. My point is, its proving difficult to find trustworthy bulls or boyfriends who are OK with the husband participating in someway (maybe a lot, maybe a little). My wife doesn’t like the idea of random hookups and would prefer something long-term and often. I have suggested often trips to the medium towns and cities for weekend flings but she gets frustrated with the frequency. The bull she had when we started this lived in the same town, a good friend and she could go to his house 3 to 4 times a week. She wants that back but hes got a girlfriend who does not want to share.
Also for those who have advice, how have you dealt with trying to stay in the “closet”. My wife and I aren’t sure what to say if someone we know sees her on a dating site with the status “Single
” or “Separated”
I don’t mean to sound whiny, just looking for advice from people who might have been in similar situations as me.
Trying to make this work in a small town,
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