Bull techniques I’ve used for sub cuckold couples.

I enjoy the cuckcold relationship when my mistress is teasing me with smart things, but i get a bit disappointed when is using this to something useless.

The tease can to be used to forward important things of the couple in mental network understanding, strategical moving, shared knowledge, occupying the mind, business, news and content pleasurable shared to entertain the couple. She will take the fiddle-bow!

Interesting but I do not treat the wives as sluts or try to degrade them. I am not attracted to that type of woman. I like classy and intelligent women who also have a desire for good sex.  I threat them with respect and as equals but then again, I never allow a cuck to tell me what to do. The women I accept have to be the one in control of their marriage so there are no rules. The last wife was my lover for 25 years and her husband never said a word if she stayed with me for weeks or went away on vacation with me. 

I never responded to ads. My wife found all the women for me because she liked to watch. What I did was not even close to the current cuckold fantasy that everyone is trying to duplicate. A different time when the internet had no influence on how we indulged our fetishes. 

@Mr.Dom1956 said:
As an Experienced Mature White Dom Male, I have learned certain techniques to enhance the sub cuck couples enjoyment during play.

I am what you call a one cpl. Dom. Bull. Which means I don’t float around. To me cuckolding is not just a lifestyle but a relationship.

When I am looking for a sub cuck cpl. I look to see that they have a strong confident marriage and relationship outside the bedroom or play. The bedroom, or play meaning sex. That they know the difference between the fantasy in the bedroom and the reality outside the bedroom. I want not only to just to be their Dom Bull, but good friends outside, respecting the discretion, and personal lives of them and as they of me.

A Bull must remember that the cpl. Is allowing you to enter Their most deep , private sexual sanctum of desires . And you must respect and honor that privilege.

As a Dom Bull I not only have the responsibility of satisfying my sexual needs, desires and gratification. But also insure the sexual needs, desires and gratification of the sub slut wife as well as the cuck boi.

Once We have all established the guide lines, rules and boundaries. I as a Dom Bull must establish my supremacy.

One technique I use is the establishment of two mottos for the sub couple.

1. ” Your wife is my slut, but she will always be your wife.”

I usually say this to cuck boi in front of the slut wife to hear. Then have him repeat it from his perspective. ” my wife is your slut, but she will always be my wife.”
This does two things. It establishes that his wife is mine to do with as I please when she is with me, him being present or not. And second, it reinforces the confidence that no harm to their relationship together will ever a cure, both during play and outside of play. As a Bull you want Their relationship and marriage to last. Otherwise it wouldn’t be known as cuckolding.

2. ” boi’s have a penus , a man has a cock.”

This I use a lot on my cuck boi . At times during play, I have him repeat it to me. Then ask him. “What do you have?” He response. ” I have a penus.” Then I will ask. “What do I have?” His answer. “You have a cock sir.”
This really heightens his need and desire to be humiliated.

As for the slut wife. She is mine. Established by our agreement, boundaries, and guidelines. She is never aloud to have anyone other than myself to climax in her or on her. With out my expressed consent. This I will clarify later.
She is my slut, my personal whore, and at times my bitch. She must own it. At times I have her repeat these to me. She fully understands that when I use these terms during sex, that I use them to sexually heighten our play and as endearments. Not as a put down.

Now here is a technique in play you and your sub couple might want to implement. My last couple loved it.
Remember I for mentioned the slut wife never to have any others climax in her or on her? I used that technique to establish the she is not only my slut, but also my whore. During play at times I would have her service cuck boi. If he deserved it. Other than his fluff and cleanup duties, I would make him pay me for her sexual service, or him to service her. When they were alone together, she would call me for permission to service him or him to service her. The monies she would keep in a jar in her dresser, and she would show it to me. This money was used to help pay for our cuckold weekend getaways. How cool is that?! But still cuck boi was never aloud to cum in her or on her.

Another rule I used was when the sub couple wanted cuck boi to service me as well her in his fluff and clean up duties. He is never aloud to touch my member with his hands. Slut wife can feed it to him, but never is he aloud to hand touch it. It establishes that my cock is for her to please and be pleased. It gives him the humility that I am the Dom Bull to be respected and payed homaged to.

Well these are only a few techniques and insight of my perspective of a sub cuckold relationship. If you have others I would love to hear about them.

I leave you with one thought.
To all Bulls and Dom Bulls. Remember. The slut wife in the cuckold relationship is the main focus and pivotal point. It doesn’t matter what you or hubby think or say. She is it. I don’t care of what you’ve heard or read, she is In control. She gives you control because she is in trusting you to fulfill her desires. She has the last word in the cuckold relationship. RESPECT IT!

Mr.Dom.

Very much so, my wife was enjoying the exactly the relationship with her bull for a few years, unfortunately his wife found out and dragged him back to Uk, as you say my wife was my wife but when he was here she was his whore, My wife absolutely loved fucking him, as she used to say he has a real cock (9inch), over time they played solo and I was rarely invited back into the bedroom, but my wife was sexually happy . we used to fuck 3-4 times a week, now her bull was taking over and all sex with me was ceased for over 2 years….Inside the bedroom he was my wife’s bulls, outside he was a very good family friend that never crossed it public, now he gone my wife does miss him and still enjoys casual sex with others , but as she puts it, he was the fuck of the century….shame you dont live over here:)

@Worshypper said:
I enjoy the cuckcold relationship when my mistress is teasing me with smart things, but i get a bit disappointed when is using this to something useless.

The tease can to be used to forward important things of the couple in mental network understanding, strategical moving, shared knowledge, occupying the mind, business, news and content pleasurable shared to entertain the couple. She will take the fiddle-bow!

how long a cuck?

Hi Mr Dom 1956 I absolutely love and agree with your outlook. Shame we do not have a Dom like you locally to train us.

regards

nic

I’m 28 single dom male from India working in Veldhoven/Eindhoven. I’m easy going respectful clean and would love to meet people near for NSA Fun.

Age:28 , Height: 5.6ft , Weight : 74 kgs . I’m Genuine, clean and DDF. Discretion and genuineness assured.

Would love to hear back about you with little more details and Happy to discuss further.

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My wife just started being a sub with Dom, but he doesnt want to include me at this point. He told her thats the deal, until her training is done she has to accept it. She agreed. So far he has ordered her to withhold me being allowed to cum in her and sometimes not at all. My wife on the side assures me its all in fun and she wants to follow through exactly as he says for now and see how it all plays out. He has given her a gold anklet with a gold circle to be symbolic that he owns her now, in and out of the bedroom at lest in regards to her sexuality.

My question is, will she be brainwashed so to speak to buy into his total domination of her over time, grow close feelings to him since he will be the one cumming in her the most apparently or whatever he has her do. I have been a hotwifey type for so long, but this is a new territory for me, a bit scared and excited.
Should i be concerned, do women fall for their doms or atleast drink the koolaid and be the woman they wanted her to become. Thanks, shes beautiful and hot, Id hate to lose her by not paying attention to the situation.

Great advice and observations, Mr.Dom1956. We have a similar situation with a Dom Bull here in Texas, and while he has much of this figured out already, the observations are spot on.

The poster above is asking whether the wife will lose herself in the relationship with her Dom Bull. I’m curious to hear your response. (My humble thought is that it would remove a lot of the fun for him if she did.)

I am also curious for your thoughts on how to encourage the Dom Bull to extend his control over us and specifically my wife further than he does now. Basically we’d like to implement the advice in the Cuckolding: A Love Triangle and have him become more of a Boyfriend than a Bull. We are practicing most of the steps, but the ones we’d like to add are public dating (Bull is single but dates in the vanilla world for appearances) and sleep overs at his place and ours.

JsCuck

A very good and intelligent post Dom1956

We have only been with a few other men and not established a solid relationship like you describe. But I noticed my wife being drawn towards dominant makes and enjoying being treated ways I can’t do. And also noticed the unspoken power of Bulls-Doms both in relation to my wife and myself. Like they expect me to be the servant bringing them refreshments, preparing the bed, cleaning up etc.

How do real Doms Look at submissive cuckolds? Are they just a necessary thing given the wife is married or do a Dom get something out of denying the cucks access to his wife, ask the cuck to serve etc?

As a dom, you want the relationship to be strengthened, not weakened, through your interactions with the couple. Denying him is part of his arousal and heightens her experience by having him dominated emotionally.

As a dom (or bull), if you want to take it to another level, and push yourself up the dominance ladder while pushing him down a rung or two, I might suggest getting him to take your cock in his mouth (even if just briefly).

From the perspective of a Bull, you are taking charge and asserting dominance over them both, by demonstrating your dominance over him (the more dominant you are over the husband, the more submissive the wife will be to you). Women will naturally gravitate toward the dominant male.

For the Bull, there is a powerful feeling had from compelling the cuck to do something they wouldn’t otherwise do.

One counterintuitive point worth mentioning however is that it’s not always appropriate to use humiliation as it may result in resentment if forced. Instead, positive feedback and encouragement are often useful. For example, if she’s into it and her husband knows it turns her on, then he will be more willing to do it. You can ask use the Cuck’s lust as motivation and sex as a potential reward.

I enjoyed reading this very much, Mr. Dom. Thank you.

Sounds like you have found some things that work for you.