Re: Wife Has Attachment Issues, Need Advice.

When my wife started cuckolding me the first time around she got emotiionally attached to one of her lovers and ended up breaking off the relationship and stopped cuckolding me. She told me about the attachment and how he was trying to get her to leave me for him. She loved me enough that it wasn’t going to happen but the fact that she even got attached scared her and that’s why she stopped the cuckolding altogether. Fastforward to many years later. Our marriage had evolved into a pretty much female led relationship and she had gotten in touch with her old boyfriend on social media. I had met him in the past and she had told me how he was hung like a horse. I suggested that he come for a visit and she could renew acquantances so to speak! Long store short, this got her started back to cuckolding me again. She is in her 50’s now and she has matured a lot since the first time around. We have talked about the differences between the first time around and now and she says that now she views her lovers as just someone to have a good time with, much like a friend that she has a drink with from time to time. She has two regulars that different styles of fucking her and she says it’s the variety that she enjoys and looks at them as friends and nothing more.

I suspect your wife is experiencing the same emotional turmoil my wife did when it happened to her. The best advice I can give is to let her know that you feel secure in your relationship and have no problem with continuing but don’t push her into anything that she’s not willing to do as it will cause more harm than good. Give her time to sort through her emotions and deal with what happened and hopefully she will decide to pick up where you left off.