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New here, and after looking around and reading the posts, it doesnt seem like I “fit” here. The only person on this entire forum where I read what they say and find myself thinking “yea, thats it” is robbiewillsucku. The vast majority of the posters here seem to be obsessed with dick size and thier own sexual inadequacy, rather than focused on female sexuality.
I dont have a huge dick by any means, but its not small either, and I am not a 30 second wonder. Between my wife and I, I am the far more experienced partner, and sexually, very much the “top” in the relationship, for lack of a better term. In fact, thats what has led me down this road, I am in my late fifties, and my wife is in her late forties, I am her second marriage, and when we started down the road we are on, Her ex and I were the only men she had had sex with. She orgasms with me most of the time(and when she doesnt, its usually more due to restrictions because of time constraints imposed by lifestyle, and sometimes having a young child interfers).
I felt that it was unfair and unrealistic for her to go through the remainder of her life only having had sexual experience with two men, when I have had literally dozens of lovers over the years, and that is what has led me to encourage her to explore her sexuality with other men, especially considering that she is rapidly closing in on menopause. To be honest, I would also LOVE to share her in a threesome (male or female either way, as long as the focus is on her), or watch her fuck another guy. I just like it when she comes, and at least sometimes, I would like to be able to just sit back and WATCH that happen.
As far as the whole “dick size” obsession on here, my wife has endometrosis, she cant even take MY dick in some positions. Arent there any guys on here that just simply question the whole puritanical “good girls should only want to fuck one guy” BS, and just want thier wifes to feel free to explore thier sexuality, and want to participate in that process with them, without focusing on thier own percieved sexual inadequacy? I really am not trying to be a dick here, and I really do respect that everyone is different, but hell, to be honest, there really doesnt seem to be much in the way of difference here. Its just that based on what I am reading here, there only seems to be one member that is anywhere near to being on the same page as me. I cant help feeling like I dont fit in any better on here than I would on a “family values” Christian marriage type forum, it comes across as just as extreme, but at a different place on the spectrum. I guess Im not a “cuckold” in the traditional sense, but its not like theres that many places I can go.
Is getting banned on your first post some kind of a record? LOL!