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    • #39240

        Hello guys,

        I have been following this website for about a year now and was very pleased to see that this lifestyle actually exists and people are practicing it.

        I am a 28 year old straight male and I belong to the south asian community in europe. As this lifestyle is not very common in my culture therefore it took me a while to finally accepting my cuck sexuality. Like many others I identify as a beta male and proudly accepted my inferior nature. I have never been able to get a girlfriend. Even though I have pretty decent looks and a good cock of almost 6-7 inches. But I nature had planned something else for me. Even when masturbating I can’t keep up and cum fairly quickly within a minute, or mostly 30-40 seconds so I became evident satisfying women is not something I am capable of.

        But I like women and would really love to be in a relationship, get married and where I devote myself to my wife fully. I know because of my genetic defects and inferior masculinity its my moral duty to end my lineage here and not have any kids. But since I have always wanted to have kids therefore I would love if my wife deicded to have kids with her lover.

        I am now at a place where I feel like its a deadend. How to approach such women and eventually live my life as a cuck?

        Your experienced suggestions would be welcomed!

      • #39241
        Cathy & Jerry

          You’ve asked your question in the best group online and you will get many good answers. Good for you for realizing that you’re not good mating material, and we applaud you for your decision to allow your future wife to mate with a much better man (Alpha lover) and have his child and be happy knowing that he is making love to her in your place. Many of us have either done this or wish they/we had done this when they were first wed, so you’ll get answers from those who have intimate knowledge of this and you’ll get answers from those who didn’t but know what they did wrong in the past and can pass on their new knowledge to you. Good luck in your search for a FLR, you’ll be successful eventually, just don’t give up. Cheers

          • #39242

              Thank you Cathy & Jerry, I am glad to let you that I feel very happy to have a reply from you. Having read many of your replies on other posts, its sort of an honor.

              And yes you are right that its in fact very good for someone to realise early that he cannot be a good mating partner and in fact is inferior. That doesn’t really mean that he cannot be a part of a married and happy life. Every man be it an Alpha or Beta deserve a place in marriage, it’s just that the beta must have the courage to realise his place and make necessary sacrifices which are expected of him so that a happy family environment is created.

              I hope to be a part of such a FLR soon. Cheers!

              • #39243
                Cathy & Jerry

                  Well said, we wish you luck and many (lover’s) babies 🙂


            • #39270

                First, you do not have deficiencies and your not inferior. You are who you are. Being who you are and not who others want you to be is a good thing. A very good thing. There is not a country in the world where people, for the most part do not hide who they really are.There are a lot of cuckolds in the world and I am not just talking about the ones we associate with here. Cuckolds are men who wife has sex with someone else. Many times the wife does so behind the husbands back. She does this to get the sexual satisfaction she is missing, that most women are missing.Real men love their wives and want them to be happy. Honesty as has been said many times, is the best policy. First be honest with yourself, just as you have done. Cuckolds here are wittols, that is the men know of their wives sexual intentions and for one reason or another support their wives and encourage them. I am happy you are in a good place in your life.

              • #39385

                  My wife and I are new to cuckolding, and are incredibly excited about me being a cuck, watching my wife have sex with another man. We’ve talked about this extensively, and continue to do so, and though we have a few ground rules in place already we understand that the goal of our journey is not to limit ourselves too much. It is incredibly rewarding, and we are discovering more about each other and wants/needs/desires. I suppose we are wondering what would be the essential next steps? There is so much information available that it becomes very, very confusing.

                  Another question I have is that much of what I am reading points to the bull as boyfriend scenario, and we are more interested in “one-night stands.” We are interested in how best to go about this: we would still like to meet and talk with the bull before hand, and want to take necessary safety precautions, but what are other considerations and where would be the best place to find reliable and responsible bulls?

                  Thanks so much your help and support

                • #39391

                    First keep talking about everything. Cuckolding is like a buffet, take what you like and leave the rest. Some things you may try later. Bull and Boyfriend to my way of thinking are different things. Boyfriend is more a steady lover. Bull is perhaps a one night stand that could progress to more. Have fun.

                  • #39407
                    Cathy & Jerry

                      We tried the one night stands (Bull) and it just didn’t feel right. Sure it’s exciting to have a strange man’s cock in me but it’s unnerving every time and we always had the bull wear a condom because we didn’t want to take a chance of catching an STD, and that became boring and a pain in the ass to me. I/We decided to find a boyfriend/lover instead because I wanted to be with a man without condoms (hate them) and wanted that feeling of closeness (and the excitement I get every time I feel a man ejaculate inside of me), knowing each other’s erogenous zones, get to know each other’s kinks etc.

                      This worked out perfect for me/us because I felt that “loving” feeling I needed when having sex and the closeness I desired and I could have sex without a condom knowing that I wasn’t going to catch anything bad from my lover (both of us tested). I have had several lovers over the last 16 years and almost all of them have been found on Ashley Madison. Women don’t have to pay for the account and they don’t have to use a real name whereas the men have to pay not only for the account but they also have to pay for every message they send to a woman.

                      This site is meant for married women to find a lover, so it’s perfect. Most of the men on there don’t send stupid frivolous messages because it’s costs them to do so, but you still get the odd dummy looking for photos but nowhere near as bad as the other “free” sites like AFF etc.

                      My current boyfriend and I are very much in love with each other and we both admitted it to my husband who wasn’t shocked at all, he could see what was happening and wasn’t upset by it because he knows I will never leave him for another man EVER!

                      He was quite happy about our news and doesn’t mind all the special gifts and trips my boyfriend pays for. My cucky and I haven’t had intercourse in over 9 years but that was never forced upon him or me, we talked lovingly about it and decided that it was best that only my lover should be allowed inside of me and it’s been so perfect for us both (as well as my boyfriend loves knowing that he’s the only man entering me).

                      All in all I would think that most women would want this type of cuckold lifestyle for the safety, closeness and special bond that is created between all three involved. Don’t forget to talk lots about what is truly desired and expected by both of you, make rules to follow and change them if you feel there isn’t enough or maybe too many rules once you’re all comfortable with each other. As CRCouple mentioned, never stop communicating with each other (if one of you has a concern don’t be afraid to talk “calmly” about it and iron it out), fine tune your likes and dislikes, don’t be afraid to experiment and last but not least HAVE FUN!

                      Be sure that cucky meets the possible suitor the first time you meet him and that both of you are happy with the selection, proceed slowly and enjoy the lifestyle and all it offers you. Neither my cucky nor I would ever want to go back to the dull monogamous life we had before cuckolding!

                      Good luck and have fun


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