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    • May 21, 2020 at 4:48 AM #33618
      markjones

        Hi Everyone

        I am new to both this site and this fantasy. I’m very keep to become ether a stag or a cuckold, but have no idea where to start!

        I know that I will, at some point, have to share this fantasy with my wife but my question is, apart from being open and honest, if there a best way to approach this? Are there things I can do to get her thinking about this herself? How do I go about improving her confidence (she is shy) so she feels sexy and attractive to other men?

        I really want this but I also really want to do it right. Any advice would be much appreciated.

        Thanks!

      • May 22, 2020 at 4:01 AM #33639
        Denied

          I am sure all women are different and get into this lifestyle in different ways. An easy way of testing her feelings when you’re out together is simply mentioning that a guy has been looking at her in ‘that’ way. Then later tell her you’re not surprised as she looked so sexy. Try a little role play act out if she’d been there on her own and he’d approached her how would she react. It’s safe because it’s fantasy.

        • May 22, 2020 at 4:32 AM #33641
          Robert

            Go to a swing club! Meet like minded folks and start out as swingers…sex in front of people, sex with others, watching each other then watch her with other men. See how you feel and talk about the experiences…

          • May 25, 2020 at 2:30 AM #33693
            markjones

              Thanks Denied. Yes, a few other people have also suggested that. It is something I plan to do once life is all back to normal.

              Robert, thanks for the reply but I think that is lot further in the future for us.

              Cheers,

              Mark

            • May 28, 2020 at 4:06 PM #33732
              Anonymous

                I started by buying mine a BBC dildo and playing. I ask her questions while we are using it if it is bigger than mine?, if she wished it was real and it cum inside her, she will reply yes and she will want me to clean her out when he is done. I think my wife wants a real one just scared to do it? I have told her numerous times she needs a real one and I would love to lick her clit while she fucks a fat 9” BBC and then I would suck his cum out. Good luck

              • June 8, 2020 at 2:52 AM #33831
                al

                  Well, i also hope to find advice here on this lifestyle. I have shared my fantasy with my wife, and she is really turned on by idea of cuckolding me. But for now, we only roleplay, far away from real thing.

                • June 9, 2020 at 6:42 AM #33856
                  slaveofwife

                    You will get there with patience and communicating.

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