Cuckolds: are you staring at that cock?
I know you are.
Are you becoming aroused in this voyeuristic moment where you see another male aroused?
It’s ok; it doesn’t mean you’re gay (or even bi). Relieved, right? Your wife is, too.
I was asked about this topic by a wife recently who was concerned that her husband got so aroused by hearing about her boyfriends cock and would even get aroused by images such as this. Granted, there are many bi-sexual men out there and certainly some married men who are in the closet and will gladly hide behind the cuckold role to further their homosexual desires, but for those who are quite obviously heterosexual in their desires, this reaction to other males is easily explained.
For you husbands who have found yourselves struggling with what it means to be so aroused by mens’ cocks, answer this: when you view an image such as this, do you think of it in connection with your wife? Is it her lover’s cock? Is he about to enter her? Is she crawling across the floor to suck the tip into her mouth? If these are the thoughts you have, then your own swollen state isn’t so much about his cock as it is about your role as cuckold.
The cock is the symbol of manhood, which is why it is not referred to as a cock for cuckolds, but rather as a ‘penis’ and teased, denied and demeaned as an expression of dominance/submission withinin cuckold marriages. It is also the symbol of the husband’s cuckolding. This is particularly true when that cock embodies characteristics or qualities superior or more desirable for the wive than the husband’s penis.
Being exposed to or having to interact with another male, her lover, in particular, can also bring on these feelings as such interaction (cleaning, bathing, assisting in their coupling) will also likely be very arousing and in these cases, the source of arousal is most often the submission expressed by having to perform such acts – not an attraction to another male.
Perhaps some of you are breathing a sigh of relief now!
I think there’s an easy way to distinguish a submissive cuckold from a gay man. I’m not sure why people are “afraid” of being gay because they’re the same people who say “there’s nothing wrong with that” etc.
In any case, I think there is a clear distinction. A gay man is interested in a romantic relationship with another man, in a word, love. An Alpha Male and a cuckold who have sexual contact are not at all interested in a romantic, loving relationship.
A submissive cuckold instead loves his wife romantically and is excited not by the thought of a loving gay relationship with the Alpha, but by sexually submitting to the superior Alpha Male. A submissive cuckold may want to fluff the Alpha Male’s cock as a display of sexual submission, but unlike a gay man he doesn’t desire to kiss the Alpha on his lips or snuggle the Alpha, or do other things men do in a loving, gay relationship generally want to do.
Similarly, the Alpha may expect or allow a cuck to fluff him, but he too is not interested in a loving gay relationship. He’s interested in asserting his sexual dominance over the cuck as part of his exclusive or first priority access to the wife’s sexual pleasures.
Very good post!
If a cock is of interest to ones wife, if it can satisfy the women I love, then what is wrong with feeling admiration for it. Or seeing a cock, and then seeing ones wife enjoying that cock, well, it would seem logical that the husband would take pleasure in viewing that cock (and the guy it is attached to). I can easily see that the photo of the cock that Luvr has shown us, is attached to a guy who is totally confident. I think most any cuckold would be envious of him. And he is of special interest to my wife.
Being submissive, i’ve often fantasized the ultimate acts of demostrating my submission. High on the list is submitting to the needs, wants of the Alpha Male and the mixed bag of emotions and feelings. i don’t necessarily find men attractive though big cocks facinate me, i don’t desire to kiss and hug them but providing serves for the Alpha just seems the natural order of things.
Luvr, Bevan is quite feminine with certain things in his life, which would include his sexuality. And it doesn’t surprise me that he find certain things in your writings as erotic. But I wouldn’t call him gay. Just self conscience about himself. He’s never really been assertive in the bedroom and probably looks to other men for guidance in that area. But as a husband, he is fantastic and very much loved.
Bev, in some strange way, I understand. Luvr, nice cock. Tehe. xoxox
If that were a picture of Emma’s physical partner, then this image would offer me such comfort and assurance as I could only imagine that he would be quite capable to relieve Emma of her womanly sexual needs and quite properly restore sexual balance within our marriage.
I would praise Emma for her wonderful choice in partner and welcome him with open arms into our bedroom.
I would also encourage him to visit our home as often as he could and carefully prepare Emma and our bedroom for his conjugal visits.
He is quite broad and I can imagine the snug fit he would have with Emma and the quality of physical release they could have together.
He also looks like he keeps himself healthy and in great shape, therefore would emit sperm of high standard.
It would be a comforting and fulfilling experience for Emma to feel his cock at its stiffest, straightening out the path of her vaginal canal, spraying semen into parts of her stomach which had never greeted semen before, especially proper healthy semen.
If this cock were to meet Emma, it would be a celebration of Emma’s sexuality and nature’s purpose for men and women, a celebration I would take joy to assist time and time again.
His manhood would come to embody the selfless love I have for Emma.
His stiffness would be the measure of how much I adore Emma.
His penetration would demonstrate the length I would go to provide pleasure for her.
And his deep deposits would go to show her that she is appreciated by more than one.
I would happily provide him with post intercourse wipes, or provide more time in the bedroom if he needed to continue.
I fantasize about how intense our embrace would be when she returned to my arms with lodgements of another man’s sperm sprayed deeply in her vagina.
These are some of the thoughts that pass through my mind as I view other men’s cocks.
I am not ashamed to say that I gaze at other men’s cocks and stiffen myself over the thoughts of their interaction with Emma. It is something I find comforting in its normality. It is part of who I am as a husband.
Gazing allows me to see Emma in new lights. I imagine how these well –built men would have an effect on Emma and how she would mentally and physically adapt to the variety and the gradual changes their sex would have upon us.
I know that Emma will be deeply interested in this article and will help her to understand the times she had caught me in previous years viewing online pictures of cocks. I am not a bi-sexual. I was actually thinking of her.
What a relief, and what a great explanation. Thank you, thank you, thank you for this posting.