The willful and loving violation of traditional marital bonds.
I believe this is an accurate and concise definition of contemporary cuckolding. Like the lifestyle itself, the phrase is somewhat conflicting since we, as a community, promote the understanding that cuckolding is shared between a couple and therefore not cheating and therefore not a violation of marital bonds, but the deeper truth is that it’s the violation of what is traditionally defined as marital bonds that creates meaningful contrast in the experience. Just as a muscle becomes stronger through exercising it (putting it under stress), a cuckold couple builds their marital bonds through the willful and loving exercise of those bonds which outsiders would consider only as violations of their bonds.
Here we witness, as does her fiance, what would be considered a violation of their emotional bond;
the submissive pleasuring of her boyfriend’s cock in a manner her fiance has never experienced.
Having brought her boyfriend to an erect and mating ready state with her mouth, she welcomes him inside her with their cuckold as witness. The cock is bare, the testicles beneath it heavy with the potential for procreation. This is certainly a violation of the couple’s traditional, physical bond which dictates only her fiance should know the snug grip of her sex.
In just a few weeks, he’ll be the Best Man at their wedding, but tonight, he’s the best man to be inside her.
Over the last couple of years, I’ve seen a pretty sharp increase in the number of early to mid-twenties couples already embracing this lifestyle well before marriage. I’ve always maintained it’s not the piece of paper which matters, but the maturity and commitment exhibited. A couple who can form this level of trust and commitment even before marriage is far more likely to create a sustainable relationship, in my opinion, than those taking a more traditional route.
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My wife would rather have lovers with men that I don’t know which I’m fine with, but recently she took a coworker, which I think is pretty kinky. We’re not in-your-face with having a cuckold marriage, but her female coworkers have definitely caught-on to her wearing more revealing clothing and heavily flirting with him — all this despite the fact they’ve all met me at occasional work parties.
I think that’s one of the greatest sexual charges I’ve felt since I’ve become a cuckold: meeting my wife’s lover. Added to that, I was meeting him in front of not only my wife (who giggled after introducing us), but their coworkers who all sensed she had been f___ing him for months. Even the sting of that humiliation had me extremely turned-on.
Wow! Did he know that you were aware that he was fucking your wife or he thought she was cheating?
Indeed he did, panty.boy. That was another important matter we discussed. I want her lovers to know I’m fine with the arrangement. The funniest thing about meeting her boyfriend in front of all their co-workers is that my wife is now sort of a “hotwife coach” for 5-6 other ladies at work now!
You know how work environments are. Well eventually my wife came out and told some of her curious female co-workers that she’s cucking me. Now they bounce questions off her all the time now about our lifestyle.
Pat, could you please update us on the details of your ‘best friend’ progress? It would be exceedingly appreciated. 🙂
My husband was particularly keen that I went with his friends. And it’s interesting that in your article here you make the trio include his best man. Mine always wanted to be there, too: just as here. I sometimes wondered if he regarded sharing me as akin to a man letting another drive his prized car. Is it a way of showing off a possession?
Great article. I’d even wager that men anymore are almost groomed by society for cuckolding. Personally, I’d love marriage to become a bond of life and emotional intimacy for the couple while the wife is actively encouraged to take others for sexual and passionate bonding. I can see cuckolding becoming the social norm for marriage in a few decades.
Is this really a possible development we are moving towards – my main concern is the darth of strong, well hung man to replace the cuckold in a marriage? Or will our wives share a Bull among them?