Helping nature take its course.
Socializing is, in my opinion, the most effective way for wives to meet guys they want to date and dating is the most effective way for a wife to find a long-term boyfriend. Yes, success can be had online where expectations can be more easily set and communicated, but looking online comes with other complications. The age-old process of boy sees girl, flirtation happens is a chemical and social process built into us and for that reason alone is still the best way to get a hotwife actively dating.
Unfortunately, the reality is that wives and couples tend to lead complicated lives where time budgeting is a challenge and a fair to large portion of their interactivity with men is under time-limited circumstances when flirting and courtship isn’t practical. Even when time is available and flirtation is effective – then what? Does a woman risk her privacy with someone who is still a relative stranger by sharing her mobile number? Probably not. Is she bold enough to ask for his? Usually not. That’s where this idea comes in.
Hotwife Flirt Cards
Flirt Cards are business cards for the flirting wife. They are a way to invite and/or extend interaction with someone recently met. Instead of offering the wife’s mobile number or home number, the card can provide only an email address for an existing ‘play’ account or a new one can be created if she doesn’t have one for this purpose. A ‘play’ account is one set up using a ‘free email’ service like Yahoo, Gmail or Hotmail. This means that even if only physically attracted, the wife can offer a card and continue the contact with him via email as well as arrange another opportunity to meet and continue the physical flirtation.
The template is built around using Avery Business Card stock #8871 that prints in home printers and produces very nice looking, smooth edge business cards. A package of 200 business cards in printer format is around $15. My guess is this template will work well with any similar product.
Flirt_Card_Template (download – 32Kb, MS Word .doc)
These cards run the spectrum from very vague invitations to very specific wording that indicates the husband’s permissive role. This enables a more ‘tailored’ choice when handing out a card. The ‘Date Voucher’ card, for example, could be given by either the husband or the wife. If given by the husband, it’s obviously clear he’s aware, but even if given by the wife, it provides an opening to casually explain being married, yet available to date.
These cards can be customized further by adding URLs (links) to online profiles at this site or others. The cards can be printed on both sides as well allowing for more content to be included, if desired. It’s also possible to include an image or images, if edited properly, to remind the recipient of who gave him the card while keeping said image anonymous.
Verified couples can request a personalized template from me.
Having a card handy in the purse will enable even the shy wife to extend communication or buy herself some time if she’s feeling a bit overwhelmed by a courting male. It also ensures having only a few minutes with someone interesting doesn’t have to be the end of it.
If you have any success with these, I’d love to hear about it.
There doesn’t seem to be a way to upload photos to post. So, I will see if the img src html for photobucket works. Here are examples of ours (san itized with our names out since this might be publicly viewable).
If note, here is the URL:
http://i1346.photobucket.com/albums/p694/JandGinSD/DV-san_zps5bacb6c9.jpg
@JandGinSD Great point. It essentially boils down to writing an agreement by choosing the words carefully while being legitimately mindful of legal issues (e.g. prostitution) and elements (e.g. exchange).
But like any other written agreement it still is important to enter into the arrangement with people who respect a formal written agreement.
The great thing about a written, formal agreement is that it provides a clear structure for all. Reducing anything to writing typically prompts all parties to reflect seriously on the arrangement – moving past many unrealistic, fantasy kinds of thoughts.
Although I never look at the “contract” as legally enforceable, I still attempt to structure the agreement so that I am “facilitating learning experiences” or “providing training” as a dominant male to a submissive female or couple on specific BDSM topics in exchange for a specific consideration. The specifics are “negotiated” clearly up front. Even though I never use the “lever” of trying to enforce the contract, it does make it easier to remind either the submissive female or the couple of their responsibility to live up to the agreement we’ve previously established.
After reviewing my follow up to your post, JandGinSD, I realize that I’ve drifted far away from the original discussion about hotwife flirt cards. Sorry ’bout that.
Along the same lines are the cuckold contracts. They are exciting to many but not really legally enforceable as such, at least the ones we have seen. Now if there was a clearly mutually benefiting exchange of consideration between the bull and the cuckold, structured in a way that it could be quantified for equivalence and could not be legally construed to be prostitution, it might work as a real bilateral contract.
What a great idea. And hubbyathome, you’ve impressively taken the whole concept to a much deeper level.
We have a variation of this too!
Some years back I made one of these Hotwife Flirt Cards for my wife. We coined it our “Get down to business card”. One half of the card had a drawing of a scantily dressed woman in a giant martini glass with the caption “Instant slut just add alcohol”. On the other side was the heading “Yes my husband knows I’m here”. Underneath was my email address. My wife would occasionally go away on business trips, and she found these cards to be a great icebreaker if she met someone she found interesting at the hotel bar. Not only did the card let these guys know that this married woman was available, and her husband approved, it also provided a steady stream of free drinks for my wife. The saying on the card “Instant slut, just add alcohol” isn’t just a joke, it’s true. After about four or five drinks, my wife is an absolute pushover for an aggressive guy!…… Having my email on the card would sometimes give me the thrill of hearing from some stranger who had spent some time between my wife’s legs and maybe provide a contact for another tryst down the road. Also interesting were emails I would occasionally get from friends or business acquaintances of the guy who had actually taken my wife back up to his room. My wife might have handed three or four of these cards out at a table during the evening and a couple times I have been able to get a secondhand report from an interested observer. I heartily recommend all cuckold’s to give these cards a try!
Around the same time I made the “Get down to business” card for my wife, I also created a couple of full-size personalized greeting cards on my computer, designed to encourage her, and wish her good luck in pursuit of extramarital sexual activities during her business trips. These I inserted surreptitiously into her luggage for her to find when she would go on business trips out of town by herself. Your flirt card templates got me to thinking about how useful and interesting a template for cuckold greeting cards could also be. Some examples might be… The anniversary card…… The Cuckold would use this card to congratulate his wife on milestones achieved in the duration of her relationship with her boyfriend or Bull, such as one month, six months or one year anniversary. The cuckold could give a card such as this to his wife, and tell her to share it with her boyfriend. The card might say something like “Congratulations to the sexiest couple I know….. I’m sure you cherish the memories and adventures you’ve had together during the last six months, and I hope things will be even more fulfilling and exciting for you in the coming year!…….. I’m so glad that you met, and it’s obvious to see that you deserve each other. You can both depend on me for support and encouragement in your continued relationship together.” Separate anniversary cards could be made for the wife and her Bull, especially if he is a Dom to your wife. This would allow the cuckold to personally congratulate, and thank his wife’s Dom thereby reinforcing the husband’s compliance and dominance to her Dom. The card to his wife would congratulate her on finding a man that can unleash her feminine instincts and dark desires. He would also assure her that he understands that she needs, and deserves this type of man in her life, and would declare his unwavering love and support for her. This type of cuckold themed card could also be applied to birthdays, holidays, and even baby showers. (I’d love to see that card!) One of the cards I slipped into my wife’s luggage had a cartoon image of a voyeuristic view obviously observed from outside a window. The cartoon depicted a sexy white woman with a surprised look on her face, straddling a huge black shaft that was obviously stretching and distending her at the point of their coupling. The caption of the card read…….”I hope you’re having fun in Atlanta, honey!……… Are you thinking of me?” When my wife discovered the card, how could she not think of me, and be reminded of my desire for her to come home with a naughty story to tease me with? Another great thing is I still have that card in my cuckold memorabilia collection, to remind me of my wife’s past adventures. I’m sure our members could come up with a lot of great ideas for cuckold greeting cards that we could implement into this lifestyle.
I think this is a very fun idea, might try this out when my wife is finally living with me and we can have lots of opportunities with them. Once again, a very nice topic with a slightly more playful twist.