Many wives are reluctant to overtly tease their cuckold physically, verbally or emotionally, yet for a cuckold, this is most certainly a vital aspect of the experience of being a cuckold.
Taking the time to remind the cuckold that his penis, his testicles are still valued by you, though perhaps in a different way, is very important for his emotional well-being. In addition, teasing him in any form provides important intimacy between you that could otherwise not be expressed if the wive’s little sex is committed to her boyfriend only.
In the image above, you can see a wife straddling her husband while his penis is obviously fully swollen inside his restraing, a CB600. I prefer this device for the apparent ‘pressed ham’ effect visible here. Even from a distance it’s easily apparent that he has reached the maximum expansion his penis will be allowed. Experiencing this level of denial is his gift to his wife and she should appreciate it as such.
I enjoy directing such tease & denial sessions and have found that it adds considerable meaning for both husband and wife when the teasing of husband by wife becomes teasing of the husband by the wife’s Dom or boyfriend. The play depicted here; the teasing of her husband’s confined genitals, is also arousing for me as an overt expression of his submission to us and her submission to me.
I have so many options at this point:
- I can continue his teasing in this manner
- I can have him released and still deny him entry
- I can release him only to have him iced enough to return him to confinement
- I can mount her just as she is and enter her while her mound is pressed to his swollen balls!
Yes, I know I’m evil, but it’s so enjoyable!
My wife does not lock me up, but she does tell others, many others, than I have a small penis. She also tells people that is why we have an open marriage and she has a live-in boyfriend.
We have gone to poly meet-ups and she has made sure everyone knows I have a small penis. And I kind of like that everyone knows. When we go to swing clubs my wife doesn’t have to tell others that I have a small penis. It is quite evident.
I have a bumper sticker on the back of my Suburban that says “L’il Dick.” And I like that. Everyone who drive up behind me or passes me looks over at me, and I know why. And that kind of turns me on knowing that other people know how small I am.
To me, being small is a matter of pride. I know most men are not small. And that makes me somewhat unique. And that makes me feel special. Therefore, when my wife tells others how small I am, I know she is telling these other people of my size because it makes me feel proud, and it lets other men know that since they are not small, that they can have her. The fact that she also tells everyone that we have an open marriage helps.
We have done chastity. Very frustrating and exciting at the same time. Can be humiliating when wearing one at the beach when getting out of the water 😉 I love seeing the key hanging between the wifes breasts
Some cuckolds have told me they also find comfort in being restrained. They report mentally equating the confinement of their penis as if it were being held tightly by their wife and seem to find comfort in that. Chastity certainly has its uses, but I also feel that experiencing a balance of being denied even an erection while sometimes experiencing one for hours without relief are equally important forms of submission.
I was a little hesitant at first about the idea of chastity, but now I’m all for it and this article definitely makes it VERY appealing.