Author: Luvr

Jealousy: The Death of Trust

I have to admit not being very familiar with this reality TV show, but just on the surface, I have to point out what an idiot this guy is being. Choosing to have a relationship with a woman so appealing – who enjoys being appealing – and letting petty jealousy control the decisions, is a recipe for misery and failure. “90 Day Fiance” star Paola goes against her husband Russ’ request that she not wear lingerie outside of the bedroom.When the Colombian model was cast to star in a reggaeton music video, Russ asked her not to wear lingerie...

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The Many Faces of Denial

Many different forms (and levels) of denial are practiced by cuckold couples and often they have little or no idea why they do it and why it seems to be valuable in the cuckold/hotwife experience. I explain the foundational concepts in detail in Cuckold Denial, an article from 2011, but have touched on it in a few others as well.  Recently a wife approached me through the site with concerns about having started denying her husband sex. As is typical for most couples in this situation, intercourse between them has became a mechanical and brief period where the cuckold...

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The Perils of Inattention

When using the social features of the site, you may receive an automated email from me notifying you of a message or reply on the site. At the top of the page, in bold letters, it says: DO NOT REPLY TO THIS EMAIL – THIS IS ONLY A NOTIFICATION The reason should be self-explanatory, but for those who do reply to the email, it comes to me. I simply delete them not wanting to be involved in anyone’s business. Today I was going through my junkmail folder and found a gem. Some of the regulars in the chat room...

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A jerseyhottie Update

It’s nice to see hottie is back in action! Nice Friday night in wonderful New Jersey and we had a meet set up with a possible stud for hottie – she had met him online on one of the websites we visit. He mentioned to her that he has been a bull to a cuckold couple previously. These meetings are hit or miss depending on a great many factors so we don’t go into it with any expectations as to not be let down. These meetings are very uncomfortable at first much like and interview so we think of...

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Monetizing A Lifestyle

Jenny Nordbak is a mom-of-one, a wife, and has a B.A. in Interdisciplinary Archaeology from the University of Southern California.She’s also a retired dominatrix for Hollywood’s rich and famous.”I was just about to graduate from USC and was at that crisis point that I think a lot of 22-year-olds reach where I wasn’t’ sure what I was doing with my life,” Nordbak told Fox News.That’s when Norbak came across an ad for a BDSM dungeon in Los Angeles. Source: Jenny Nordbak was a dominatrix for Hollywood A-listers | Fox News I have a few comments on this story –...

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