Cuckolding: the loving violation of traditional marital expectations.
Cuckolding takes the foundation of a stable, loving marriage and extends it to include one or more males who play a specific, sexual role within the marriage. Contrary to popular myth (especially online), a husband's sexual inadequacy is only a significant factor in the desire/need for a cuckold marriage in a minority of cuckold couples; for most, this is a loving way to expand the boundaries of their relationship and safely explore more aspects of human sexuality.
The image right is an excellent example of a loving, cuckold marriage dynamic. Wife, husband, boyfriend are all involved. The wife is being touched, reassured and pleased by both her men and in return, is pleasing them both - just in different ways. Inviting another male into the marriage exercises the marital bonds as weights do a muscle - requiring effort, but making them stronger for it. When practiced properly, cuckolding will bring a couple closer together & greatly increase intimacy despite of and also because of the intimacy the wife now shares with her lover. Cuckold Marriage.info was first established in 1996 following the founder's first experience openly dating someone's wife. Since then, the mission of the site has evolved to one of education, empowerment and encouragement. Cuckold Marriage Info also seeks to correct the misinformation online about the lifestyle. While the definitions below aren't fully sufficient to educate someone new on these concepts, it at least puts us all on even footing to communicate from the same perspective. Please join us in the chatroom to have a more interactive experience. To continue gaining perspective on the basic elements of this lifestyle, take the curated tour of articles by the founder.
Though the use of labels/titles/definitions is often hotly debated, I have established some definitions within this community that members and visitors should be aware of to communicate effectively while participating here.
Often treated as a polar opposite of a cuckold marriage, a hotwife marriage is focused on more casual sexual interaction with other males without much familiarity or regularity. Most couples start out as a hotwife marriage by default since the exploration of a cuckold marriage takes time to develop. The difference between a hotwife and cuckold marriage compares to the difference between a bull and a Dom.
The term bull is often used as a general term label for a male involved with a married woman. Often falsely thought of as being synonymous with the term "Dom", a bull is involved purely from a sexual standpoint; as would a bull let into the pen of female livestock - hence the term. A bull can be assertive sexually but still lack the experience and bonds necessary to provide a submissive/couple with effective leadership. A Dom (also referred to as an Alpha) is far more involved with the couple and often plays a significant leadership role.
This site is a social community and as such attracts a large number of people with a very varied motivations for being here. While I never seem to have women here pretending to be men, I do often see men here pretending to be women or pretending to be part of a couple when they are not or at best, their wife has no knowledge of this activity. To counter that, I encourage couples to become verified. More information on that process is available here.