Cuckolding is often seen from the outside as simply a casual sex opportunity, but to truly enjoy it as a lifestyle, couples need to explore the mental and emotional aspects of enabling other males to have a sexual role in the marriage.
Cuckolding takes the foundation of a stable, loving marriage and extends it to include one or more males who play a specific, sexual role within the marriage. Contrary to popular myth online, a husband’s sexual inadequacy is only a significant factor in the desire/need for a cuckold marriage in a minority of cuckold couples; for most, this is a loving way to explore sexuality.
A wife-centric, rewarding experience for everyone
The image right is an excellent example of a loving, cuckold marriage dynamic. Wife, husband, lover are all involved. The wife is being touched, reassured and pleased by both her men and in return, is pleasing them both – just in different ways.
- Wives become empowered to embrace life as a more sexual being
- Husbands embrace having a supportive role, improving marital ties
- Wives enjoy the best of both worlds: loving husband & an exciting sex life
Inviting another male into the marriage exercises the marital bonds as weights do a muscle – requiring effort, but making them stronger for it. When practiced properly, cuckolding will bring a couple closer together & greatly increase intimacy despite of and also because of the intimacy the wife now shares with her lover.
Cuckold Marriage.info was first established in 1996 following the founder’s first experience openly dating someone’s wife. Since then, the mission of the site has evolved to one of education, empowerment and encouragement. Cuckold Marriage Info also seeks to correct the misinformation online about the lifestyle. While the definitions below aren’t fully sufficient to educate someone new on these concepts, it at least puts us all on even footing to communicate from the same perspective. Please join us in the chatroom to have a more interactive experience. To continue gaining perspective on the basic elements of this lifestyle, take the curated tour of articles by the founder.
The term “cuckold” has a classical definition of a husband to an unfaithful wife. The term was coined from the Cuckoo bird which lays its eggs in the nests of others and never raises its own young. While there have likely always been husbands who enjoyed their wife expressing her sexuality with others, the modern usage of a husband who is supportive of her extramarital intimacy has only been around the last twenty or so years.
The term bull is often used as a general term label for a male involved with a married woman. Often falsely thought of as being synonymous with the term “Dom”, a bull is involved purely from a sexual standpoint; as would a bull let into the pen of female livestock – hence the term. A bull can be assertive sexually but still lack the experience and bonds necessary to provide a submissive/couple with effective leadership. A Dom (also referred to as an Alpha) is far more involved with the couple and often plays a significant leadership role.
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The Introduction to the Marital Role: Hotwife is a PDF that can be viewed online, downloaded to share via email, or be printed as a means of starting a conversation about the hotwife role. It can also serve as a more gentle introduction to this site.
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Though designed for use around the neck, the training collar can just as easily be secured about a cuckold’s much more sensitive dangly bits to deliver adjustable feedback with a handy remote!